Matt Nolan Death: It is with immense sadness and deep sorrow that we mourn the passing of Matthew Poli Nolan, a loving husband, father, son, brother, and friend. Matthew, aged 41, of North Haven, Connecticut, tragically passed away on April 4, 2025. Born on March 6, 1984, in New Haven, Matthew was the son of Timothy and Ellyn (Shields) Nolan. His untimely departure has left a profound void in the hearts of his family, friends, and the community that he loved and served so well. Though Matthew’s life was far too short, his legacy of love, loyalty, and dedication will live on forever.
Matthew’s life was defined by his devotion to his family, his unwavering commitment to those he loved, and his genuine kindness. He was the epitome of a devoted husband and father, always striving to provide for his family and ensuring they felt safe, loved, and supported. His passing is a heartbreaking loss, but the impact he made on the lives of those who knew him will remain long after his physical presence has left this world.
At the center of Matthew’s world was his beloved wife, Jennifer (Kendall) Nolan. Their relationship was one rooted in deep love, mutual respect, and unwavering support for one another. Matthew and Jennifer were partners in every sense of the word, sharing not only the responsibilities of marriage but also the joys and challenges of life. Their bond was unbreakable, built on a foundation of trust, love, and shared values.
Matthew’s love for Jennifer was evident in everything he did. Whether it was in small, everyday gestures or through his constant dedication to her happiness and well-being, Matthew’s devotion was clear. His passing has left an unimaginable gap in Jennifer’s life, but she will carry the love they shared with her always, knowing that their connection transcends time and space.
Matthew was also a proud and loving father to his two daughters, Annie Lynn and Katie Ellyn Nolan. As a father, Matthew was devoted, patient, and always ready to spend quality time with his children. His daughters were the center of his world, and he reveled in every moment spent with them. Whether it was helping them with their homework, playing with them in the yard, or simply enjoying quiet moments together, Matthew was always there for Annie and Katie, offering guidance, love, and a sense of security.
Matthew’s love for his daughters went beyond the traditional fatherly role. He was an active and engaged parent, making sure to create lasting memories with Annie and Katie, memories that they will cherish forever. His sense of humor, warmth, and easygoing nature created a home filled with laughter and love, and it is this legacy that his daughters will carry with them as they grow.
Matthew was also a deeply loved son to his parents, Timothy and Ellyn Nolan. From the moment he was born, Matthew brought joy and pride to his family. He was the type of son who would go above and beyond to ensure his parents felt appreciated and loved. As they reflect on the life of their son, Timothy and Ellyn will remember Matthew for his incredible work ethic, his caring nature, and his genuine commitment to his family’s happiness.
For his parents, Matthew was their pride and joy, and he grew up to be a kind, responsible, and generous man. His love for them was unwavering, and their bond was one filled with mutual respect and admiration. Though they are now left to navigate life without their son, the love they shared with Matthew will remain a guiding light in their lives.
Matthew was also a cherished brother to his siblings, Timothy Poli Nolan Jr. and Adam Poli Nolan. He shared a special bond with his brothers, built on shared experiences, laughter, and a deep understanding of one another. Timothy and Adam, along with their wives, Diana and Jennifer, remember Matthew as a brother who was always there for them, offering his support, humor, and love whenever they needed it.
As a family, they have many cherished memories of time spent together, whether it was during holidays, vacations, or simple family gatherings. Matthew’s presence was a constant source of joy and love, and his brothers will forever hold him in their hearts as a guide, confidant, and friend. The memories they created together will continue to provide them with strength and comfort as they face life without him.
Matthew’s love and loyalty extended beyond his immediate family. His sister-in-law, Krissy Kendall, and his mother-in-law, Marita Roddy, remember him as a man who was always welcoming, kind, and thoughtful. Matthew embraced his extended family with open arms, making sure that everyone felt included and loved. His warm heart and generosity touched the lives of many, and he will be deeply missed by all who had the privilege of knowing him.
Matthew’s dedication to his family was matched only by his commitment to his community. He was the type of person who always put others first, whether through his work, his friendships, or his volunteer efforts. Matthew’s kind spirit and generosity left a lasting impression on everyone he met. He had a natural ability to bring people together and create bonds that would last a lifetime.
Friends, colleagues, and neighbors will remember Matthew as someone who could always be counted on, someone who would lend a hand without hesitation and offer words of comfort when needed. His generosity of spirit extended to everyone in his life, and his legacy of kindness will continue to inspire those who were fortunate enough to know him.
Friends and family will gather to honor Matthew’s life and the impact he had on all who knew him. A visitation will be held on Thursday, April 10, 2025, from 3:00 pm to 7:00 pm at Beecher & Bennett Funeral Home, 2300 Whitney Avenue, Hamden, CT. On Friday, April 11, 2025, at 11:00 am, a Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at St. Paul VI Parish/St. Rita Church, 1620 Whitney Avenue, Hamden, CT, with interment to follow at St. Mary’s Cemetery.
In lieu of flowers, the family has requested that memorial contributions be made to a GoFundMe campaign to help support Matthew’s family as they navigate this difficult time. The link to the fundraiser is available: Help Matt’s Family Heal and Rebuild.
While the loss of Matthew Poli Nolan is immeasurable, his memory will forever live on through his loving wife, daughters, parents, brothers, extended family, and friends. His kindness, compassion, and unwavering love for those closest to him will continue to inspire all who knew him. Matthew’s legacy is one of love, family, and service—qualities that will never fade and will continue to shape the lives of those who were fortunate enough to call him their husband, father, son, brother, and friend.
Matthew, you will be deeply missed. Your love and your presence in our lives will never be forgotten, and we will carry you with us in our hearts always.